TIPS FOR DATING

TOP 10 DATE TIPS

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10. For the first date, plan to keep it short. A lunch date is ideal. If the two of you really click, you can always stay out longer, or make plans to meet again.

9. Have a backup plan just in case the weather turns bad or the restaurant is closed.

8. Call a day or two beforehand to confirm the date, time and place.

7. Both he and she should use their own transportation on a first date. Be sure you know how to get to where you've agreed to meet, and show respect for your date by arriving on time.

6. Dress appropriately for the occasion. For her: dress comfortably, and (although it sounds like a cliche) avoid overly provocative clothing. For him: be clean and neat, get a fresh haircut and a shave. For both: shower, use a mouthwash and deodorant, and avoid strong perfume or aftershave.

5. For your own safety, let a friend or relative know where you're going. Carry a cell phone with you, and be prepared to leave if things go beyond your comfort zone.

4. Keep the conversation light and pleasant. Good subjects include family, work and career goals, hobbies and music. Touchy subjects such as ex-girlfriends, boyfriends or spouses are always off-limits on a first date.

3. Show class and self control. Don't go "all the way" on the first or second date, and drink in moderation, if you drink at all.

2. First dates can be stressful. Keep a sense of humor, and don't take things too seriously.

1. Know when to end the date. Leave on a high note, before either of you starts getting bored. Be honest and courteous about whether you want to meet again.

Dating Tips That Work- Which Of The Three Types Of Women Should You Be Dating?

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When most "dating gurus" and sex therapists spout their dating tips, they often complicate the whole process with unusable theory and psychobabble.

I’m going to bypass that, make it brain-dead simple for you, and most importantly, reveal a few dating tips you can apply in the real world. In these dating tips, I'm going to share with you the little-known concept of the "three types of women.”

There's a wonderful book you should read called "Winning Through Intimidation" by Robert Ringer. You can get it on Amazon for a few bucks (get the original version published in the 1970's, not the new "touchy feely" one.) Many people are turned off by the title, thinking it's about "scaring" people into giving you what you want. That's not what it's about, though. It's actually about protecting yourself from intimidation. It's also a fun read, full of hilarious stories and even a few cartoons (of turtles wearing sunglasses). But it's a book each and everyone looking for dating tips needs to read, because the part I'm about to share with you absolutely applies to interacting successfully and effortlessly with sexy women.

In the book, Ringer talks about the three types of people in the business world- and in my experience he's 100% correct. Here they are. Type #1- this is the guy who is out to get all your "chips" and lets you know about it. This guy is "straightforward" about his intentions, what some would call honest. Type #2 this is the guy who assures you he is not out to get your "chips", and in fact, tells you he wants you to get everything that is coming to you. Then he attempts to grab all your "chips" anyways. Type #2's are the most treacherous type. Type#3: this is the guy who assures you he is not out to get your chips, and sincerely means it, but by his bumbling, stumbling or just pure incompetence he winds up trying to take them anyways (even though he doesn't mean to). How do the “three types” translate into a usable dating tip?

And, how does all of this relate to success with attracting sexy women? Well, it's been my experience that women fall into, roughly, these three types as well.

Type #1: she's straightforward with you about her intentions… whether she's into "fun friends," or looking for a husband, she is forthright with you up front. She knows herself and what makes her happy.

Type #2: this is the woman who appears to be straightforward with you about what she wants… but for whatever reason, she's out to get your money, deliberately break your heart, or she's just pissed at all men -what a female friend of mine called a "cruel woman." Like the above type #2, the operative word here is "treacherous."

Type #3: this is the woman who truly believes herself when she tells you what she's looking for, but for whatever reason, bad things seem to happen around her… she "self sabotages" whenever things are going good, and winds up wreaking great emotional havoc on the men in her lives, even though she doesn't mean to. The result is still the same as dealing with a Type #2, though, and that’s why it’s vitally important you pay close attention to the above dating tips.

Obviously you want to spend your time with the Type #1's (in business and with women) and avoid the Type #2's. If you pay attention and listen for her, what I call, map/model of the world, you can usually identify the Type #2's. You'll hear things like "my last boyfriend was cheap, he wouldn't take me out or buy me things." Or, things like, "I drove by his house and a strange car was in the driveway… he was cheating on me." Here is a dating tip that will save you time,
money, and heartache: when you hear things like this, run away FAST.

Type #3's can be more difficult to identify. It usually takes a lot longer, and you have to pay careful attention. Listen for things like, "It was going along so good, and I just don't know what happened." Type #3's are controlled by their "inner world," not in control of it. That's why I usually recommend starting any relationship as just "fun friends" so you can begin to get a clear picture of her map/model of the world and pinpoint her Type. A lot of what appear to be Type #1's in the beginning actually identify themselves as Type #3's later on down the line. You can never stop paying attention, or you will get in trouble. Dating tips like this one can be applied, and used day in and day out. Start paying attention to this, and watch just how true this is. It's the difference between happiness and misery!

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Is your relationship moving from casual to serious?

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Have you been dating since long? If the answer is yes, you may be moving from a casual relationship to a more serious one.

Read on…

You have been dating someone since long after a great find on an online adult dating, site. It may not have been a love at first sight kind of thing but gradually perhaps without your knowing the relationship moved from casual to serious one.

Mature adult singles don’t take a plunge into relationship but follow a cautious approach towards building relations. The logic is simple; no one wants to experience the distress of a failed relationship.

You begin to meet regularly or live together- the first sign of moving into a serious relationship. Your relationship turns intimate and exclusive and memories of ex-partners or any other alliance fade away.

The attraction for others comes to a standstill even if the prospect is more appealing. When this happens it indicates that your relation ship has solidified and both dating couples have become serious about each other. The dating couple, now feels more comfortable in each others presence, and often reveal secrets that they have been hiding earlier.

Small fights that caused lots of distress earlier are tolerated easily and you start communicating more openly with your date. At some stage or other parents, friends or relations or even match makers for the more conservative may come into picture by way of being acquainted or sometimes as advisors.

In the final stage you or your date will begin asking serious question to explore the viability of a long term serious relationship. The next and final step is making commitments to each other about things that matter or things that may be futuristic.

The attraction for others comes to a standstill even if the prospect is more appealing. When this happens it indicates that your relation ship has solidified and both dating couples have become serious about each other. The dating couple, now feels more comfortable in each others presence, and often reveal secrets that they have been hiding earlier.

You and your date will now stamp in the final seal of approval and marriage contract is signed eventually…thanks to online adult dating the new internet revolution.

The keys to successful dating for men

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The keys to successful dating for men

Dating is probably one of the most exciting yet daunting adventures any single individual might ever encounter. Traditional dating—meeting up, going out and eating out—with somebody you are interested with can be a challenge as well as a learning experience for everyone.

More than the women, men feel more pressured when going out on a date because they are expected to do almost everything to make the date a success. Since they are the ones who will carry out most of the so-called “dating tasks” here are some tips that can help men go through with the exciting process of dating the girl they are interested with.

BARING THE BASIC DATING ESSENTIALS

Dating can be a daunting task especially for those men who haven’t dated for a long time, for those who haven’t been successful with women, and even for those guys who are so used to dating without knowing the basic rules in playing the game.

Remember, people need conform the rules whether they like it or not. In the case of dating, there are simple rules that need to be followed to ensure success for both parties.

1. Ensure cleanliness by keeping on eye on your hygiene and style. The worst thing any man can do is to turn up on a date smelling, unshaven, and looking dirty so the first thing you should do is to take a bath, brush your teeth, and shave those stubborn stubbles. Men who do not know how to maintain hygiene are no-nos for the more hygienic sex. So it pays to spray on some decent cologne and gargle before you meet up with your date.

2. Dress up to look your best. Looking your best when you go out on a date gives the idea that you have prepared for the special occasion even if it’s only a first date. If you don’t have enough dough to buy new shoes or clothes, at least try to wear those decent ones to impress your date.

3. Be on time. The first impression of women is usually based on how much men value their time. If you ask a woman on a date, make sure that you can turn up on time because not doing so will give her the impression that you don’t value your word. If you don’t want your date to think you are unreliable, try be early or at least on time when going out on a date.

4. Before asking someone out, make sure you have a job to flaunt. Women always find security in men you are secured themselves. Although financial stability is too early to discuss, your current job will give her an idea if you can manage dating her for a long time. Men who have jobs give women the impression that they are ambitious and they have the will to go on top.

5. Do all the necessary preparations. Preparing for things you can say during the date will ensure the easy flow of conversation all throughout. Getting your knowledge levels up and sharing it with your date will definitely make her date interested. The safest topic to discuss includes current events so make sure you watch the news or read quality broadsheets.

6. Know when to stop talking and start listening. Opening up topics for a conversation will pave the way for an interesting intellectual stimulation but you must know when the ice has been broken. After you have given your thoughts on a certain topic, ask her what she thinks and listen to her intently.

7. Issues on bills. The general rule in dating is that whoever asks for that date should pay for it. Since you are the one who asked for and you are the man, then, by all means, you should pay the bill. But if the idea of your paying for the entire bill does not sit well to the woman you’re dating and she insists paying for her own, make a compromise. Suggest that she pays the half and you’ll pay for the rest.

8. Being a gentleman pays. Simple things that show your gentleness like holding the door open for her, letting her walk through the door first, and pulling out a chair for her will definitely make an impact on her. Showering her compliments throughout the day will also make her think that you appreciate her efforts of looking good for the date.

9. Watch out for body language. After the date, watch out for her body language before attempting to kiss her goodnight or before trying to seduce her to jump into your bed. Sex on first date is not a good thing unless she wants to. Lastly, don’t tell her that you’ll call her if you don’t have plans of doing so.

10. If you are serious in the woman you’re dating, start learning how to live a healthy life. Smoking and drinking only show irresponsibility and carelessness because you are not taking care of your health.

5 Simple Tips On How To Attract The Opposite Sex

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If you want to know how to attract the opposite sex, read these five tips.

The first tip on how to attract the opposite sex is to stand out in a crowd. Being the center of attention will create the illusion that you are worth getting to know.

After all, everyone else evidently thinks so, so why shouldn’t that special she or he as well? If you can’t do or say something to draw a crowd (no, not something tawdry) then simply stand in the center of the room. It works.

Bars are the exception to this standing in the center rule. Yes, it’s still good to be the center of attention, but for some reason the best place to get noticed in a bar is in the corner.

No, not on a timeout facing the wall, or looking like a scared little wallflower - but sitting at the end of the bar. Don’t sit at a table.

You’re less approachable in a bar when you’re at a table, and someone of the same sex is bound to ask to join you if the bar is crowded.

Color is important in your attempt to attract the opposite sex. Not only can it help you attract the opposite sex but you can also have some control of which of the opposite sex you attract by choosing the colors of your wardrobe.

Color consultants have studied color’s effect on the opposite sex and the determination is that most women find men who wear blue the most attractive of those wearing any other color.

Blue conveys a message of stability, constancy, dependability and faithfulness. Of course, the fact that clothes and their colors match – that the tie coordinates with that blue suit and the socks aren’t green – helps make a good impression as well.

For women who want to know how to use color to attract the opposite sex, the generally safe color is pink or peach. It makes a woman’s skin glow with a look of health, no matter what her skin tone is.

These are the colors that convey soft and vulnerable too, which macho males are attracted to.

Now, if you want to make sure you don’t convey vulnerability, if you’re strong and you want the man to know it and you want to be sure and find a guy for whom this isn’t a threat, then wear a deep red, plum or burgundy.

Red is certainly the most sensual of colors, but it’s also the most powerful too.

The two types of men that red will attract are those attracted to powerful women and those who are interested primarily in sex.

With red you might find the man who isn’t threatened by your strength, but you also may have to weed through a lot of horny chaff to finally find him.

If you want to find out how not to attract the opposite sex wear yellow green. They’re sure to stay away in droves.

Reading Body Language

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Body language is a discipline about non-verbal behavior, one of the most powerful, private and quite language because it helps you understand emotions and feelings of people around you.

Body language is one of the most important languages to learn because after you know how to interpret the behavior of others you will know what they really think.

Reading and interpreting body language is an art and science. She makes every action with a purpose and it expresses something. Therefore, it is very important to discover reading body language, signals, smiles, gestures.

Maybe you have a friend, a girl one, and you want to know if she is interested in you, or it is a girl that you like and you do not know how to approach her, or just you meet her in a club and she looks interested in you, learn to read her body language to know her feelings. You can see exactly what a woman thinks by reading her body language, pay attention to the signs, read them and use them to your advantage.

Women's body language is very subtle so you should know to read it. Let us say that she is a girl that you really like and you meet her at a party. Watch her closely as soon as you get a sign that she is interested in you too, to make sure that you catch her with your charm.

You can find out her thoughts and feelings by reading the signs:

* watch her head toss, if she throw her hair over her shoulders and show off her neck, it means that she want to attract attention

* if she pushes her fingers throw her hair means that she really love to be conquered

* she looks into your eyes with deep interest means that she wants to meet you better

* while talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes

* if she get nervous while you are looking at her means that she is a little shy, but she has interest in you

* her skin tone becomes red while being around you

* big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face

* she bumps into you and touches you accidentally means that she wanted to be sure that you sow her

* she is dressed very sexy , to show her nipples underneath and she is fixing her outfit to make herself look better, means that she is friendly and free

* also, the most appealing position for men is a woman sitting with one leg pressed against the other, placing one hand on her thigh, it's surely a clear call for attention

* if her pupils dilated when she is looking at you means that she likes you

* she shows her shoulders, legs or feet means that she is comfortable with the surroundings and with you

* raises eyebrows while talking is a sign of attraction

* when you talk with her if she is looking at your mouth while talking and smiles at every slick thing you try to say, you definitely caught her

* if she bites her lips often means that she is nervous and you better stop staring at her

* also, if she sits with her arms crossed together she is very angry and she don't want to have nothing with you at the moment

* if she touches the edge of the glass with her fingers, is an sexual sign, it is a sign of intrinsic calmness, self control and waiting to sit by her

* another sign that she is interested in you is if she plays with her jewelries while you are passing over her, especially with stoking and pulling motions

If the girl you like gives you this signs that she is interested in you too, do not lose time and make the first step to catch her. Learn to hold eye contact longer than her, show her that you are not afraid and do not look away until she does. Use a confident voice tone - this turns women on.

Also, knowing reading body language can help you detect if a person is lying you:

- if she is not looking in your eyes directly while speaking

- is nervous and uncomfortable being with you

- she is saying different stories on different frames

- is extremely defensiveness

As you see, it is very important to know to read the women’s body language, even if you want to attract one, even if you have already a girlfriend to know which her feelings for you are.

Proposing To Your Significant Other

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The reason your favorite person is called “significant other” is because he or she is the human being you’d want to spend the rest of your life with. You’ve met thousands of interesting people, dated hundreds and perhaps even co-habited with a few, but you’ve finally found THE one. When the time comes to ask for her hand in marriage, lots of imagination is needed to make the proposal as significant as her – and as memorable. Proposing, by the way, is no longer the monopoly of men. Women have equal rights and can do the proposing if they wished.

Let’s see…there must be a handful of marriage proposal services that offer package deals that include poems, gifts, and dramatic effects…you know like the blimp that flies underneath the skies with the words “will you marry me?” written across it. Or the lady who almost swallowed her engagement ring because her beau had this imaginative idea of putting it in her baguette amidst the ham and the lettuce and the tomato.

The world will always welcome lovers…as time goes by – that’s the Herman Hupfeld tune that singers like Rod Stewart and others before him have sung.

Proposing to Your Significant Other - Why not Personalize it?

Unless you’ve always been tongue-tied and embarrassed about your communication skills, it’s fine to go for those packaged deals – they’re fun and undeniably entertaining. Your significant other will be impressed by the amount of trouble (and money) you spent on getting her to say yes.

But there’s nothing like a proposal that comes straight from the heart. Say it like you mean it, as they say. We’ve had amusing anecdotes tossed around about how this guy proposed to his girl – delightful little stories that we never get tired listening to.

Some men will go to great lengths to try their hand at poetry and who’ll give anything to imitate Shakespeare’s talent. There are ladies, however, who aren’t especially fond of rhymes and verses so bear this in mind if you’re thinking of taking the poetry route.

We also heard of this gentleman who took his significant other to his mountain chalet after an afternoon of skiing, lit up the fireplace, and then as his lady love was rubbing her hands over the fire, he suddenly knelt before her and joined his hands as if in prayer and begged her to marry him. Her knee-jerk reaction was one of fear because she thought he was having a heart attack after a strenuous afternoon on the slopes. She burst out laughing and needless to say, he didn’t find that amusing at all. In fact, she giggled all night. Personally, we’d feel very uncomfortable if someone knelt before us, no matter what the reason.

Of course, you can do what 75% of the male population does when they feel it’s time to propose to their lady friend. Book a quiet and romantic dinner table in a reputable restaurant, request candles, a couple of musicians and the house’s finest champagne. When you pop the bottle, you pop the question.

We repeat: make it come straight from the heart. And we’ll throw in another piece of advice. If possible, make proposing to your significant other a very private affair with just the two of you. We heard of some men having the whole clan over for dinner and in the middle of the meal, they stand up and announce their engagement – to her surprise. No clues, no warning signs. Don’t get the whole world involved if you’re not 100% sure she’ll agree. There’s always the chance she’ll say no.

Proposing to Your Significant Other - The Joy of Creativity

We understand your wish of wanting your proposal to be unique and to go like clockwork. One article on the Net said that according to a survey, 85% of women said they were disappointed about how they were proposed to, and of that percentage, 81% would never tell their fiancé of their disappointment – especially if it’s obvious that he had gone to a lot of trouble.

It’s wonderful when men make a special effort to propose to their lady love. By special we don’t necessarily mean fancy arrangements like the carriage ride or the private plane or stretch limo which some women – believe it or not – don’t really go for. But let’s not take it to the other extreme either. For example, this man has been living with his girlfriend for something like eight years, wakes up one morning, turns to his girl and says nonchalantly, “maybe we should get married.” Just like that. No breakfast in bed, nothing. He didn’t even bother changing from his tacky pajamas into something more decent. Don’t make your proposal sound like a trip to the hardware store. “Think we should get some paint today?”

A writer by the name of Michael Webb who is described as a best-selling romance author wrote an e-book on tips for proposing to your significant other. He says it isn’t necessary to spend too much money to make your proposal a hit with your fiancée. Webb’s book was featured on the Oprah show.

Oh, before we forget, diamonds are not necessarily a girl’s best friend. From the stories we read online about how they were proposed to, quite a few women said they actually disliked diamonds. So if your woman is one who doesn’t go gaga over a diamond, you may want to think of a suitable alternative.

Speaking of diamonds and marriage proposals, you do know that Elizabeth Taylor – two time Academy Award winner – was married eight times. That means she received and accepted eight different proposals, but we don’t know how many she received but rejected. We searched far and wide for how these proposals were worded but looks like they’re a well-kept secret. Only Ms. Taylor will ever know who the best one was in terms of proposing. We’ll venture a guess: Richard Burton. He certainly knew how to win her heart. Taylor’s passion for jewelry was legendary. She owned some of the world’s best known pieces, but two of these caught the world’s attention: the 33.9 Krupp diamond and the 69.42 Taylor-Burton diamond – both were gifts from Burton.

Seduce Any Woman Using Amazing New Hypnotic Techniques

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Whenever we have unfortunately or even accidentally programmed inhibitive ideas or beliefs about ourselves into our conscious and subconscious mind, whether these thoughts are of our own origination, or injected into our psyche by someone else, they are known as “Self-Limiting Thoughts,”. They are absolute trouble and need to be dealt with immediately!

“Self-Limiting Beliefs” are so effectively detrimental because they come from within, so there is far less opportunity to fend off their attacks and defend ourselves from the self-annihilation they bring. “Self-Limiting Beliefs” are the most powerful enemy we can ever have to face, as the famous old saying reminds us so very clearly, “We have seen the enemy, and they are “US!”

Just like in real warfare, one of the most efficient strategies to win a battle is to infiltrate the oppositions camp and spy out their strategies and battle plans. As well as this, you provide them with as much false information as possible, to lead them astray, causing them to make incorrect moves, based on improper assumptions. In turn, leaving them vulnerable and ready to be more easily defeated.

This is exactly what happens to you when you allow your unconscious and conscious mind to offer up negative and simply bad information to yourself about yourself. As you plan your campaign to get ladies and get laid based on a collection of Un-True and Falsified Facts about yourself – the facts that are burned into your unconscious mind – you will start setting in motion a plan to FAIL. Your brain will work its hardest to prove your plan correct – and you will probably fall well short of your intended targets.

Some Self-Limiting Beliefs are as follows:

Girls only want to be with guys who have lots of money!
Women only want sex with strings attached – committed relationships!
If you aren’t “Great Looking,” you may as well just give up now!
Babes can sense inexperience and won’t even give you the time of day if they think you don’t have the experience they deem “necessary”.
Hot chicks are only attracted to “Bad-Boy,” Alpha-Male, “A”-holes!
She’s already got a boyfriend, better give up now!
Women should be willing to accept me completely, just the way I already am!
She’s a “Total 10,” I can’t compete for her. I don’t measure up!
The “Super-Models” are off-limits, simply NO CHANCE there!
That babe is way too popular, look at all the guys who are already all over her!
They’re just a few of the seriously debilitating Self-Limiting Beliefs that can hold us back from really going for all the gusto we not only deserve, but could easily have if we just trusted in ourselves enough to go for it! If you don’t believe you can get the chick, you won’t get the chick! If you “DO” believe you can get the chick, you “WILL” get the chick! It’s really that simple. It’s all about what you believe!

What Do Women Look For In Men?

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Women are very finicky about their men. They know exactly what they want in a man and they have a one-track mind when it comes to finding that in any potential partner. This has given birth to a mating game that men don't always understand. So, they should play the game cautiously! Men should try to understand how women think. They have to hack into their brains and do this, so that they can seduce women effectively. The fact is that men think that they have the "tool" to intoxicate women, a bulging tumescent tool, but women often don't see things the same way!

It's not that men can't turn a woman on, but these are the rare cases - perhaps two per cent of all cases. But these odds just aren't good enough for men, are they? So, they should try to get into the minds of women and understand them so that they can hit the jackpot more often and have an exciting and exuberant sex life. But men have to be patient and understanding first! It cannot be denied that the position of women has changed in the modern world. Today, they are prominent in every field, have achieved financial independence to a large extent and are bold and vocal. They feel that they have the right to demand sexual satisfaction and marital happiness on their own terms. So, they have their own fix on how far they can go in every matter.

Today, women choose their men carefully and decide whom they want to have sex with. As a result, men who ruled the roost earlier, have to face the humiliation of being rejected and having their overtures refused. For hundreds of years, men have done the choosing and they have generally gone by cup-size rather than IQ. Now, women want to play by the same rules.

Both men and women have physical and behavioural turn-ons as far as the other sex is concerned. If one man is turned on by the cup-size of a woman, a woman might find herself turned on by a man's well-developed shoulders. Or if a man is turned on by bold behaviour, a woman might be turned on by sensitivity in a man. These turn-ons indicate that extreme pleasure can result from intercourse. Intellectuals often say that the aim of sex is not always pleasure.

It is the propagation of the species, they say. But arguments are mere sophistry. Sex is for pleasure, but nature has also helped in the matter of selective propagation of the fittest and best. Women are interested in sexually attractive males for the pleasure they know they will get from intercourse with them.

But attractive looks are also very important for them and a strong, sexually attractive body almost always goes with health and a strong, immune system.

WHAT TURNS ON WOMEN

Again, since wealth and status are also big turn-ons for women, this means that the offspring of such unions will have money invested in them and their chances of surviving and reproducing are very good.

In earlier times, childbirth was dangerous and often resulted in the death of the baby, the mother or both. Health and beauty generally went together and attracted males and the babies born of such unions were usually healthy and they survived. But men believe that women do not understand this and that they often couple with the wrong men.

Cathy, for instance, thinks that looks are not all that important in a man. Her man need not have the looks of a model, she says. Speaking for all women, she says that women are often attracted to a man who has a single good feature that they think is important.

That feature is often a sexy gait. So, men will have to learn to walk in a sexy manner to give the fit-to-reproduce signal. That might be easy, but what about other signals? How much are these signals under their control and how can they project them?

Women have it easier because the signals men give are less complicated and are easy to understand. Men are attracted by lusciously sexy looks. This is a signal that women can easily understand. This is why women are so looks conscious and why they are constantly trying to make themselves look more beautiful. They use everything that they think could help them, everything from lipsticks to corsets.

This is why women's magazines are so full of beauty features and ads for cosmetics. There is no use scoffing at this because all these things help a woman to attract men. Make no mistake, all this works! Let a woman who wants to be more attractive to men, wear a pushup bra and see what a difference that makes to her social life! A woman wants the man she loves to feel that she is hot. But today, a woman who uses her wiles on men is often called a bimbo.

Men are very conscious about their physiques and feel that they are sending out the correct signals when they firm up their muscles. They can do this with bicycling, walking or by investing more money and time in it, through martial art. But they need not overdo this muscles business.

Women aren't all that turned on by muscles. In fact, most intelligent women don't go for the musclebound weightlifter look. Yes, women like to see well-toned arm, shoulder and chest muscles in their men, because then they can wear snug-fitting short-sleeved shirts and tank tops, which are the closest equivalents of a woman's cleavage!

But Cathy has a word of warning. Men shouldn't overdo the muscles-and-tight-shirt thing because of the danger of giving the impression that they are gay. Once a man has a reasonable amount of muscles, he should just wear a simple T-shirt. This will be very effective, provided that it fits him snugly and is clean.

Amy has more to say on this business of cleanliness. She says that men should wash their hair and brush their teeth regularly. Women rejoice in their own long and shining hair. So, they are definitely turned off by greasy hair. Cathy adds that no woman will willingly get into the sack with a man who smells bad. Men should, therefore, be attentive to their breath especially after they have eaten garlic or other strong-smelling foods.

MEN SHOULD BE READY

Men should brush their teeth often. Sex with a woman doesn't go well if a man's breath is foul. If they don't have time to brush before sex, they should at least use a mouth freshener. Amy adds that women love long hair.

Not only do they like to keep their own hair long, they also love long hair in their men. It is an instant turn-on for them. So, men should grow their hair and then wash it often and toss it on their shoulders. Amy's boyfriend's hair is so gorgeous that women come up to him and touch his hair. Wouldn't it be wonderful if your guy too had something that all the other women loved?

But not all men can have and maintain such attractive physical assets and, anyway, they consider that these cues to women are less important than other behavioural and status cues. In the past, men worried whether a woman would be able to get pregnant, survive pregnancy and childbirth and give her man many children. Women worried about whether their men would be able and willing to provide for her and her children.

As women became freer, they began to think of cheating on their men or conning them into supporting their children so that they could have genetic variety in their offspring. When women began to think like this, they also began to tilt towards seeing physical sexiness as the indicator of health and suitability in a partner.

Eric is confused. How can he impress a girl and make her think that he is kind, wealthy, respected and talented, when he is just an ordinary geek? Amy feels that being articulate, speaking correctly and having a good vocabulary is important. Cathy has this suggestion for Eric. She feels that his interest in writing poetry is a definite asset. A woman loves her man reciting original poetry to her. Even if it is not very good poetry, it proves that he loves her and that he has been thinking about her.

THE IDEAL MAN

Amy says that her husband is very considerate. He regularly opens doors for her. He is not sexist or chauvinistic. She is glad that she does not have to endure the bad-mannered losers she used to date when she was single any longer. Her husband's good manners and generosity have convinced her that pleasant manners and good breeding melt a woman's heart. So, men should sit back and remember all the manners that their mothers taught them! She also says that women love men who are cool. So, men should try to be cool.

Cathy says that some women are stupid enough to think that they are more intelligent and sophisticated than women were in the past. Women love men who are interested in music and poetry. They also want their men to be courteous and good listeners. Men should also be articulate, should dress well and should be capable of rising in their professions. If men are all this, women want to display their legs and breasts to them!

Women know what they want in their men and, if they don't get what they want, they become disconsolate. So, they should make sure that men understand their signals!

Fear Of Rejection Vs Actual Rejection

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Most men cannot take rejections; their ego will burst with every rejection that they get. The idea of walking up to a woman in the pub and having her reject you causes more men to feel sickness in their stomach and plunge them into deep pit, never again regain their egos and self-esteems.

Therefore to ensure the above nightmare does not happen, most men will psych themselves up for half an hour by either downing alcohol or doing speech rehearsals before approaching women.

But when the moment comes to actually do it, everything changes. The heart rate shoots up, breathing quickens, thoughts of rejections feel the mind, and eventually the pressure becomes too much to bare.

Most men find this state so scary, and so eventually give up approaching women, and end up feeling down. They give up without even trying.

There is a point that I will like to find out, one is the Fear of Rejection and the other one is the Actual Rejection. Actual Rejection is having a woman talking to you in an offending, rude or upset manner. Fear of Rejection is having your little mind inside your head imagining all sorts of ways that women may reject you.

In reality, the Fear of Rejection is far more difficult to handle when compared to an Actual Rejection. Just ask yourself, how many times in your life when approaching women, you have got an Actual Rejection when compared to you walking away due to Fear of Rejection?

Most of the times when men start to talk to women, women are pretty fine with the whole affair after all. Men aren’t “rejected” often! Out of the hundreds of times that I have approached women, I cannot remember a single time when a woman simply asks me to “Get Lost!”

So it is really no big deal when you know the fact now. Even if she actually rejects you, it does not mean end of the world whatsoever, simple just move on, because you know that there will be more women out there who are willing to make friend with you!

How To Act The Right Way When A Woman Likes You

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One of the most important things for a man is to understand how to react when he knows that a woman likes him, so that he will not screw up the whole thing and piss the woman off.

So how a man actually picks up the signals? What exactly a woman will do when she is interested? Usually when a woman is interested in you, she will start to do and say things that clearly indicate that they like you. Sometimes it may be a touch, a smile or a compliment.

When a woman clearly signals to you that she likes you, it will be extremely important that you:

1. Know how to recognize it, do not act blur.
2. Do the Right Things, and make her like you more
3. Do not do what most guys do; do something special which will make her remember.

Women are different from men; they are not consistent in sending signals. Women always act like they are not quite sure about the feeling. And when they so send some obvious signals, most men respond in ways that make those signals stop, which make women more confused.

Women are not consistent, therefore rule number 1 is “Recognize it, and do not take it for granted!” Once you showed that you have recognized her feeling towards you, do not change the way that you have behaved all way long. Do not make her think that you are a different person once you know that she likes you. She will think that your cool, calm and interesting personality is just a cover for your “Typical Guy ways” that was hiding out, waiting for her approval and confirmation.

Rule Number 2 is “Do the Right Things!” Do not screw up the opportunity. Act in ways that can amplify her feeling for you, so that you are on your way to success. Do not just reply “I like you too!” when she tells you she likes you. When she tells you she likes you, reply her “I know”. Build up the atmosphere, and make her feel that you are in control of the situation now.

Rule Number 3 is “to do something special for her, do not do what most guys do.” For example when you are teasing a woman, and suddenly she leans over on you, and tells you” you are funny, I start to like you more.” Now, how are you going to react? Are you going to do what most guys do, by saying “I like you too”? Instead tell her “I know” in a serious tone or “Don’t try It won't work. Go buy me a drink or something... I prefer gifts and money.”

Learn Exactly How to Speak Romantically to Excite Women

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So you want to learn how to speak romantically to excite women. First you must realize that the chemistry between a man and a sexy woman is all about attraction, correct? It's been said that when a beautiful woman feels attraction to a man then nothing else really matters, including age, looks, money, etc.. At the same time, if a hot woman does not feel attraction to man, then likewise, nothing else really matters, even if he looks like Brad Pitt. The one thing you must remember --being physically attractive, being rich or famous, and being the right age all matter very little to a pretty girl when attraction is present.
Attraction is the key and it is a strong emotion, in fact a combination of emotions that causes a hot woman to want to pay attention to a man. We seem to learn about it as children and then we become confused about it as adults. So how can you use this information to attract hot women like a magnet?

Remember when you were a child and you teased a pretty girl to get her attention? Perhaps you threw a bit of paper at her and laughed. Or maybe you made a crayon mark on a pretty girls’ arm and then looked away, pretending that it was not you who made the mark. Or tapped her on the arm and then ran away. Those were all humorous teases that made the girl pay attention to you and made her attracted enough to play the game further.

Attraction between hot women and men is not any different. Teasing with humor is an excellent way to attract a hot woman’s attention and gain her immediate interest. When the technique is done well it calls up several emotions. It tells the woman that you are different from the ordinary others. It also presents a challenge that the hot woman will react to and not ignore. And it causes her to laugh, which makes her brain and her body react in positive ways, and tells the man that there is an opportunity to have fun with her.

The key to this basic attraction is to tease or flirt with the woman in the proper way and to have fun with it. The two elements have to go together in a proper balance. Pay attention very closely to this detail. If the comment is too cocky or goes too far and does not include humor, then it will be seen as arrogance. On the other hand, if a man spends too much time joking and being funny, then he will be seen as being just goofy. It's important that the humor be there to balance the provocative comment or action.

In real situations, the teasing with humor technique involves making a provocative comment in a humorous way. Imagine a guy pretending not to pay much attention to a woman by not looking at her directly. He says, "I think you might have spent too much time on your hair." The body language and the comment are provocative and teasing, but rather cold and humorless. You will get a negative reaction and strike out – no hot woman for you tonight. Now imagine the same body language with the comment, "I think if you had spent any more time with your hair, it would qualify as a career." Then you look at her squarely. “I have to admit that I normally don't date cosmetologists." Then you crack a smile.

That combination of teasing body language and verbal comment with a warm poking-fun kind of humor will often create a sense of strong attraction in any hot woman. You suddenly seem provocative, different, challenging, and perhaps fun. Those qualities arouse the emotions that are at the heart of her sexual attraction to you.

The next step is for the sexy woman to respond, but this time with a teasing comment or a flirtatious flip of the hair and turn of the chin. If you get this kind of reaction, you can be assured that you have just excited a hot woman! You have just learned how to speak romantically to excite women. Not the type of romantic talk you had in mind, but it sure works to create those sparks and that’s all that matters. That very hot woman wants YOU. Now close the deal….

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Love- About Loyalty In Love

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Loyalty or fidelity means devoted commitment that cannot be broken easily. To be loyal, means to adhere to all the promises made for the lifetime. To keep all the commitments made forever. Loyalty is rather a very easy word but a very laudable quality that is difficult to keep for a lot many people.

Loyalty does not consider change in circumstances. If I am loyal to my partner and my partner meets with an accident that disfigures him/her badly, does not mean that I go away to somebody better looking. If I commit to someone about my relationship and that person goes broke after sometime, does not mean that I will look for richer persons. Every situation that comes tests loyalty. In some countries the law allows you to break your marriage owes if your partner goes lunatic. But many loyal people don't break the relationship even at that time.

Every relationship rests on trust and truth. If the relationship began with lies, it can never sustain. The foundation is of lies. How truth can grow from the seed of lie? The first need or requirement of going in a long-term relationship is to be truthful in all respects. Fooling others into believing untruths is a sin.

Once you have decided to and committed loyalty, you should never break it under any circumstances. There can be no excuse for that. By doing any such act, we hurt the other partner who believed in us, and we hurt ourselves by becoming an unfaithful and unreliable person. We lose our self-esteem totally after that. Once that happens, the path is only downhill, all the way to hell. Love and loyalty go together.How can we be disloyal in love? That is an impossible thought.

To love and to be loved is a blessing. To break that by being disloyal is sinning against goodness and God. If by any chance one does an act of disloyalty, one must immediately confess and ask for forgiveness. Will the relationship ever remain same after this act of disloyalty? No. Unless one is lucky to have an extra ordinary partner, the relationship will never remain the same. Better to be a loyal and truthful person always.

Tips To Keeping Her Happy

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Do you ever wonder why the girl your dating is always pissed off? No, it’s not that time of the month, and she isn’t having a bad hair day. Have you ever stopped to think that maybe it’s you? Sometimes men can do the stupidest things and don’t even realize they’re doing them. Here are some tips to keeping your woman happy all the time:

1. Don’t check out other women, or at least not in front of your girlfriend! I cannot stress to you how incredibly annoying it is to watch your guy gawking at someone else. We know you look at other girls, and we know you think they are hot, but we don’t want to see or hear about it from you. Keep that behavior for when you’re with your friends. This is a surefire way to turn her sweet mood into sour.

2. Tell her she is beautiful, not hot. A woman can hear she is hot from just about anyone, even the dude next to her at the red light, and well it gets old. Make her feel special by telling her how beautiful she looks today, or how pretty she is. Believe me, you will get a much more positive reaction then if you were to say, “Baby, you’re so hot.”

3. Don’t play games. Why do guys feel the need to wait three days after they’ve gone out with a girl to call her? This is by far the stupidest game ever played. If you like her, then call her, whenever you want. Women hate sitting by the phone wondering if you’re going to call. It makes us think you aren’t interested, so call her the next day, I promise she won’t think you’re too clingy.

4. Be polite. Remember, you are the man in this relationship, which means you should be the one taking care of her. Don’t let her open the door, and don’t let her pay for herself. This will certainly put her in a bad mood if she has to. And a bad mood means you’re going to be lonely at the end of the night if you know what I mean.

Keeping your lady happy isn’t that hard. Just follow these simple rules and I promise her mood will be more positive than ever before. And remember this, there are three things she wants you to do: listen, be nice, and give her attention. Happy dating!

Why men fail with women and attraction

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There are many reasons why men are failing with women and
dating today but I'd like to look at it from an angle that you may
not have thought about before.

When it comes to the game of attraction, many men will start
becoming needy, clingy, overwhelmed, etc. this means they're
giving up their OWN personal independence (during that time
because it all that she sees and knows about him) and showing
signs of dependency on a woman.

When your emotions start to take over you have to understand
where they are coming from and where they fit into the reality
of things. Many men fail because they just can't control their
thoughts and physiological response to a beautiful woman.

Just because you're interested in her doesn't mean she's interested
in you.

Women are world class body language readers (they were born
to know what to look for and how to respond) and can see any
sign of nervousness when you are around them.

Any uncontrollable emotional response you have with women
upfront (or later on in the relationship when you only see her
'wonderful' side and 'fall for her') means that you are losing
your own power, strength and independence (already confused
and muddled because of growing up being hidden from the truth).

When this happens it means that she CANNOT be attracted to you.
So all the nice guys out there that try to put their ‘best’ foot
forward (and not really being their true self) are really failing
and stepping on their own feet. They’re not being honest with
themselves and their intentions.

Not to mention that many women today don’t want to be courted
and feeling like they owe this guy a committed relationship, they
want to be free and let things happen more naturally.

Many guys get so nervous and self-conscious around the women
they desire that they don't realize there's nothing they could say
to salvage it.

She already lost interest the second she saw him yet they’ll still
try to learn pick-up lines in a desperate attempt to succeed to the
point their devotion to it becomes unnatural.

All men were born with the inherent power to please women.
And it's all done on a natural level that’s really more important
to her than money (except gold-diggers). And she has to be
able to trust the man to BE a man.

Women are waiting for the 'real men' (who respect her and her
body without saying a word) because there are so few left
anymore.

Just have to get in touch with your natural power as a man
to reach the natural part of (all) women.

This power is greater than your own independent 'personality'
or your social character and it's the power that matters when
it comes to succeeding with women and giving women what they
want.

Become a man who is 'comfortable in his own skin' and maintain
that congruency and you'll find that women will treat you differently
and actually notice you.

Her interest means everything because she is the one who chooses
you or not (as a response to your character or approach) but as a
man you will lead the way.

The nice guy will 'fail' in attracting women because he's not
inspiring an instinctual or natural response in her to him.

Is it his fault for growing up in a forced reality which
covers up his real power and effectiveness? No.

Does he have to take accountability for his actions and
future? Yes. Understanding these things will allow him
to move forward into a whole level of success that he
has only dreamed of.

I like to see things this way:

You can't go with a fat, ugly chick just as much as she can't
go with a man of low character.

Women today love sex just as much as men but they expect a guy
they can trust first and if you're showing signs of dependency
or that you're too interested in her and would change your ways
to be with her, it ain't going to work out.

The good news is that women will KNOW when you are that man
they want.

To prevent failure, just become a man of high character across
the 3 areas that matter (natural, independent and social) and
you will have women wanting to be with you and not giving up
the chance to meet you.

The whole game turns around at that point and other guys will
continue to fail because they didn't understand the big game
of attraction and how to apply it themselves to be more
naturally themselves.

Be what women want by truly becoming the man you were supposed
to be instead of having to trick them into something and you'll
be able to attract women nonverbally.

All men have this power and potential despite their money or
looks. It's all about how she feels when she's around you
and that ALL comes down to your character and who you are.

So I recommend to prevent failure and have success with
women and dating!